Thursday, September 2, 2010

MEN DON’T DUMP WOMEN

Men don’t dump Women. Though at times it seams that men do the dumping. I know that this notion is difficult to accept, just read on.

Women may not do the pronouncement. But what off exhibiting it with signals. Women imply it with all manner of actions that tend to jeopardize the existence of the relationship.

Men are good in stating the do(s) and don’ts in a relationship for their partner before committing themselves into the whole stuff. I am also aware that women are good in accepting hook line and sinker. At times they also ask questions. But in the end, they accept the conditions after adjustments and clarifications. Tell me why a woman who admitted to keep to some issues so long as the affair last will suddenly turn to flout those things she agreed to without consulting the man. Is she not indirectly saying that she is fade up with the whole stuff? Hence she is doing the dumping.

Women are not bold people in making pronouncement but men are. When a woman wants to dump a man she makes the whole place uncomfortable. Those things the man does before that does not matter will suddenly start mattering.

Men do not die in silence and they don’t take shit. Out of courage, when a woman starts behaving strange, men quickly make the pronouncement of separation having found out that the woman does not want to stay rather she wants to leave. This pronouncement is made because the safety of the man is no longer guaranteed.

If a woman does not want to stay with a man again, and she is aware that the man did nothing to deserve the separation, she will start plotting on the best way of doing it to justify her actions. If she found no means, it is possible that the man’s life may be tried as it serves as impediment to her progress.

Men don’t dump women. Women do the dumping by changing attitudes and playing against the rules while men do the pronouncement out of wisdom and courage.

BEST WAY TO GET HIS ATTENTION

The best way to get the attention of your man is worthy of studying. The moment you are in a relationship and your man does not give you attention, you better run from such arrangement.

The basic thing one goes into a relationship for is companionship. Hence, if your man by any reason denies you the company you seek from him you are as good as not in a relationship.

To get the attention of your man, you should firstly find out who he is. What are the things that trip him in life? Find out things that catches his fancy. Make sure you offer him those things and his attention is all yours.

Take your time to discover the food he loves most. Find time to prepare such food for him. Prepare it even when he did not ask for it. Make sure you read his mood and be observant enough to know what he wants at any point in time. By so doing, you will make a good companion. The moment you become a good companion, he will become found of you.

Believe me that the moment a man is found of a thing, he will always give it a reasonable attention. Not to talk of when such a man is found of a woman. He will definitely behave as if he has been hypnotized by that woman.

Hence, the best way of getting a man’s attention is by getting him In case you think he is impossible, just apply this procedure; you will discover that he is very possible. Getting him found you is still the best way to get his attention.

He can only be found of you if your presence gladdens his heart. Just do the stuff that pleases him you will see how the whole situation will turn around.

Monday, August 9, 2010

18 QUALITIES OF A GOOD WOMAN FOR MARRIAGE


1)  Fear of God.

2) Truthful, even when the truth does not favor her.

3)  Respect for family value

4)  Intelligence.

5)  Beauty.

6)  Effective communication

7)  Believe in her ideas and the man’s strength.

8)  Flair for home keeping

9)  Very romantic. (Sees sex as a necessity in marriage)

10) Prayerful.

11) Benevolence.

12) Generosity.

13)  Altruism.
 
14)  Love for children

15)  Industrious

16)  Proactive

17)  Spiritually sensitivity

18)  Good Cook.