Thursday, September 2, 2010

MEN DON’T DUMP WOMEN

Men don’t dump Women. Though at times it seams that men do the dumping. I know that this notion is difficult to accept, just read on.

Women may not do the pronouncement. But what off exhibiting it with signals. Women imply it with all manner of actions that tend to jeopardize the existence of the relationship.

Men are good in stating the do(s) and don’ts in a relationship for their partner before committing themselves into the whole stuff. I am also aware that women are good in accepting hook line and sinker. At times they also ask questions. But in the end, they accept the conditions after adjustments and clarifications. Tell me why a woman who admitted to keep to some issues so long as the affair last will suddenly turn to flout those things she agreed to without consulting the man. Is she not indirectly saying that she is fade up with the whole stuff? Hence she is doing the dumping.

Women are not bold people in making pronouncement but men are. When a woman wants to dump a man she makes the whole place uncomfortable. Those things the man does before that does not matter will suddenly start mattering.

Men do not die in silence and they don’t take shit. Out of courage, when a woman starts behaving strange, men quickly make the pronouncement of separation having found out that the woman does not want to stay rather she wants to leave. This pronouncement is made because the safety of the man is no longer guaranteed.

If a woman does not want to stay with a man again, and she is aware that the man did nothing to deserve the separation, she will start plotting on the best way of doing it to justify her actions. If she found no means, it is possible that the man’s life may be tried as it serves as impediment to her progress.

Men don’t dump women. Women do the dumping by changing attitudes and playing against the rules while men do the pronouncement out of wisdom and courage.

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